OP here. No, I was suspicious something was up. OM is a downgrade. Works at a Home Depot.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was he bigger than you? If she is cheating, I hope it was an upgrade. Nothing worst than getting cheated on by a downgrade.

Everybody cheats on a downgrade.

No way. Always up.

No studies show it is mostly down. If you look at the whole package. Like a man may pick a chick that is younger and better looking than his wife but if you compare the wife picture when she was 28 with the Ow and compare mental stability and education the wife wins 99% of the time.

Men choose Ow who are disposable.

Women always cheat down except for 2 exceptions, when they are being physically abused or when they cheat with an old boyfriend from 10 + years ago.

Nope, always down. They always affair down. Think about it. The affair partner is moral decrepit.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was he bigger than you? If she is cheating, I hope it was an upgrade. Nothing worst than getting cheated on by a downgrade.

Everybody cheats on a downgrade.

No way. Always up.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was he bigger than you? If she is cheating, I hope it was an upgrade. Nothing worst than getting cheated on by a downgrade.

Everybody cheats on a downgrade.

Correction... With a downgrade....

Anonymous wrote:Was he bigger than you? If she is cheating, I hope it was an upgrade. Nothing worst than getting cheated on by a downgrade.

Everybody cheats on a downgrade.

If the naked man is in his home in this picture, there is no other explanation.

Was he bigger than you? If she is cheating, I hope it was an upgrade. Nothing worst than getting cheated on by a downgrade.

Well I personally would want to know more. I'd look at her emails or texts- might as well since you're already looking through her phone.
What prompted you to look in the first place? Are you suspicious? Has she been acting weird or distant? Or are you just the jealous insecure type that does this on a regular basis?
Not sure ehat logical explanation she could have got it - unless she's looking at porn and not a ' real' person.
I'd do more investigating if I were you.

Send yourself a copy of the picture and get all your ducks in a row. Decide what you want to do (i.e., separate or reconcile). Eat, exercise, take care of yourself. Find a competent therapist for a nonjudgmental sounding board no matter what you decide to do. See a lawyer if you think you want to divorce.

Also, get over to www.survivingindidelity.com.

I am very sorry.

Was he tumescent?

Save them somewhere, see a divorce lawyer.

Offense.

Think of an excuse that explains why you were looking at the pictures on her cell phone? Was he, um, standing at attention?

She's cheating on you. Serve divorce papers.

Found picture of naked man in my house on DW's cell phone" what do I do now?