Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 14:17     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm 14:04 and I've asked in the past, and it hasn't always gotten a good response. People who are machine hogs don't always respond well to being asked. In most cases, I just do other stuff until they are done. I just thought this guy's behavior was obnoxious - blocking a machine (when there are a ton of other places to lift) for that long when it's the only one of its kind.

A couple weeks ago, some kid came up to me and asked if he could work in. I had literally been on the machine for one minute and planned to be on for one minute more. The machine had been unoccupied before I got on, and the person before that had been on for over 5 minutes. So I said "no, I'll be done in about a minute." He tried to get me to reconsider, and I wanted to say, "why didn't you use it when it was unoccupied?" It really annoyed me. In the time it took for him to ask me and for me to say "Just a minute", I could have been halfway done.


I don't think you understand what "working in" means. It means that when you are done with your set, you get up during your rest time and he uses the machine for one set, then you switch back and forth until one of you is done. If you are only using a maching for 2 minutes than you probably aren't doing it correctly.

Also, with the guy blocking the maching I would have asked "are you using this right now?" If he's not, I'm not sure how someone can save a machine. If he says yes, then just say, "okay, I'll wait" and stand there. He should then feel obliged to either use it himself or let you use it.

Exactly. Was the PP resting when the kid asked to work in? She must have been if he came up and talked to her!

Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 14:14     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This isn't really "bad behavior" necessarily, but I'm forever confused by women that go to the gym with makeup, or workout with their (longish) hair completely down. I just don't get it. What's the point?

If you're going to workout, you should break a sweat. But maybe they're there just for appearances?


I don't get leaving the hair down, but I don't judge people that have on makeup. If I'm coming from work, I'm not going to take off my makeup before I workout knowing that I'm going to have to shower afterwards.


Agree, that I come straight from work and don't bother to take off my make-up. Sometimes I lift with my hair down, usually with a workout headband. I'm don't sweat a lot while lifting and I don't have a rubberband on my all of the time.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 14:13     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:I'm 14:04 and I've asked in the past, and it hasn't always gotten a good response. People who are machine hogs don't always respond well to being asked. In most cases, I just do other stuff until they are done. I just thought this guy's behavior was obnoxious - blocking a machine (when there are a ton of other places to lift) for that long when it's the only one of its kind.

A couple weeks ago, some kid came up to me and asked if he could work in. I had literally been on the machine for one minute and planned to be on for one minute more. The machine had been unoccupied before I got on, and the person before that had been on for over 5 minutes. So I said "no, I'll be done in about a minute." He tried to get me to reconsider, and I wanted to say, "why didn't you use it when it was unoccupied?" It really annoyed me. In the time it took for him to ask me and for me to say "Just a minute", I could have been halfway done.


I don't think you understand what "working in" means. It means that when you are done with your set, you get up during your rest time and he uses the machine for one set, then you switch back and forth until one of you is done. If you are only using a maching for 2 minutes than you probably aren't doing it correctly.

Also, with the guy blocking the maching I would have asked "are you using this right now?" If he's not, I'm not sure how someone can save a machine. If he says yes, then just say, "okay, I'll wait" and stand there. He should then feel obliged to either use it himself or let you use it.

Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 13:27     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

I'm 14:04 and I've asked in the past, and it hasn't always gotten a good response. People who are machine hogs don't always respond well to being asked. In most cases, I just do other stuff until they are done. I just thought this guy's behavior was obnoxious - blocking a machine (when there are a ton of other places to lift) for that long when it's the only one of its kind.

A couple weeks ago, some kid came up to me and asked if he could work in. I had literally been on the machine for one minute and planned to be on for one minute more. The machine had been unoccupied before I got on, and the person before that had been on for over 5 minutes. So I said "no, I'll be done in about a minute." He tried to get me to reconsider, and I wanted to say, "why didn't you use it when it was unoccupied?" It really annoyed me. In the time it took for him to ask me and for me to say "Just a minute", I could have been halfway done.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 11:27     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:This isn't really "bad behavior" necessarily, but I'm forever confused by women that go to the gym with makeup, or workout with their (longish) hair completely down. I just don't get it. What's the point?

If you're going to workout, you should break a sweat. But maybe they're there just for appearances?


I don't get leaving the hair down, but I don't judge people that have on makeup. If I'm coming from work, I'm not going to take off my makeup before I workout knowing that I'm going to have to shower afterwards.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2014 10:42     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

This isn't really "bad behavior" necessarily, but I'm forever confused by women that go to the gym with makeup, or workout with their (longish) hair completely down. I just don't get it. What's the point?

If you're going to workout, you should break a sweat. But maybe they're there just for appearances?
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 15:08     Subject: Re:Bad gym behavior - vent

Women who bring their kids into the locker room and shower, and blow-dry, and put on a full face of makeup while their kid is having a full-on tantrum. If I wanted to listen to a tantrum, I would stay at home. If you can't plan your workout to include a shower before you pick up your kid from the daycare, go home to shower.

At the rec center locker room, my pet peeve are the swim team members. For the love of God, there is no reason to scream and shout to one another after your practice for the 20 minutes it takes you to get ready to go home. The cinder block walls and tile floor amplify sound. Take your shower. Talk to one another in normal, indoor voices, and go home. Every week, I tell my own child that if she behaves like the middle school and high school girls/young women who practice at the pool we frequent, she will lose everything she holds dear.

Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 14:29     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, those things bug me too. The other day I went to the gym and wanted to do some ab work on that captain's chair thing. (the only one.) This guy was standing RIGHT in front of it, lifting weights, blocking it. So I figured I'd work out at other stations and wait for him to finish. He stopped lifting a couple minutes later, but "saved" the machine by rolling the weights in front of it. He walked around the gym for awhile.

After I had literally lifted at 12 other circuit stations, he came back to the ab thing and stood in front of it for another 5 minutes without doing anything. Then he did about a minute of abs, then stood around again. While I did another 5 stations.

He and his stuff finally moved away from the machine - literally 20 minutes after he'd taken it over, and with him doing about 1 minute on the actual machine. I've never seen such ridiculous machine-hogging with so little actual workout involved.

I hate it when the grunters sound like they're having sex. It makes me feel like I'm intruding on something private - really uncomfortable.


Excuse me, may I use that while you're lift/walking around/not using it? Done.


+1

Seriously, PPs, can you explain why you can't just say "Are you using this? Can I work in?"
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 14:28     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:OP, those things bug me too. The other day I went to the gym and wanted to do some ab work on that captain's chair thing. (the only one.) This guy was standing RIGHT in front of it, lifting weights, blocking it. So I figured I'd work out at other stations and wait for him to finish. He stopped lifting a couple minutes later, but "saved" the machine by rolling the weights in front of it. He walked around the gym for awhile.

After I had literally lifted at 12 other circuit stations, he came back to the ab thing and stood in front of it for another 5 minutes without doing anything. Then he did about a minute of abs, then stood around again. While I did another 5 stations.

He and his stuff finally moved away from the machine - literally 20 minutes after he'd taken it over, and with him doing about 1 minute on the actual machine. I've never seen such ridiculous machine-hogging with so little actual workout involved.

I hate it when the grunters sound like they're having sex. It makes me feel like I'm intruding on something private - really uncomfortable.


Excuse me, may I use that while you're lift/walking around/not using it? Done.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 14:04     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

OP, those things bug me too. The other day I went to the gym and wanted to do some ab work on that captain's chair thing. (the only one.) This guy was standing RIGHT in front of it, lifting weights, blocking it. So I figured I'd work out at other stations and wait for him to finish. He stopped lifting a couple minutes later, but "saved" the machine by rolling the weights in front of it. He walked around the gym for awhile.

After I had literally lifted at 12 other circuit stations, he came back to the ab thing and stood in front of it for another 5 minutes without doing anything. Then he did about a minute of abs, then stood around again. While I did another 5 stations.

He and his stuff finally moved away from the machine - literally 20 minutes after he'd taken it over, and with him doing about 1 minute on the actual machine. I've never seen such ridiculous machine-hogging with so little actual workout involved.

I hate it when the grunters sound like they're having sex. It makes me feel like I'm intruding on something private - really uncomfortable.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 09:01     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

People who have no space awareness in a fitness class and start to move move move into your space.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 08:56     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

Anonymous wrote:People that look at the machine next to them, and try and secretly "compete" with them. Dudette, you may be going faster than me on the elliptical, but that's because you have the resistance set to 4. Try bumping it up to 14.

Keep your eyes on your own machine, and do your own workout.

I also hate grunters. There's one older man that sounds like he's constantly orgasming, and it grosses me out. Even with my headphone volume set all the way up, you can hear him.


These are two of mine too! I also hate newbies...I know I know so wrong, if anything we should encourage people who aspire to a more active lifestyle but AHHHH they annoy me. Its already dieting off though, by valentines it will be back to the same old peeps!
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 08:55     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

One time I was at the lifetime fitness in Chantilly and I was in the middle of using a machine (hadn't been on it more than a minute) and a man came up and asked if he could use it. THAT is rude. The place was always packed and I had to wait to use anything and ended up leaving. But I always found that incident strange. And I did get up and let him use it lol
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 08:51     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

People that look at the machine next to them, and try and secretly "compete" with them. Dudette, you may be going faster than me on the elliptical, but that's because you have the resistance set to 4. Try bumping it up to 14.

Keep your eyes on your own machine, and do your own workout.

I also hate grunters. There's one older man that sounds like he's constantly orgasming, and it grosses me out. Even with my headphone volume set all the way up, you can hear him.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 08:43     Subject: Bad gym behavior - vent

It annoys me so much when people sit on a weight machine and play with their phone (not exercising) while I wait to use it.
People at my gym are also known to put a jacket etc on a machine to "save" it while they use an adjacent machine. Anyone else have gym pet peeves?