Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 07:05     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Just be yourself. Get comfortable in your own skin and work on boosting your self-esteem.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 00:30     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Confidence.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2014 00:28     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Leverage the cleavage?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:12     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
OP here. Haven't posted before. Yes my friend's body language is more relaxed, mine is more stiff/rigid. And she definitely smiles and laughs a lot, though I feel like I do too.

I think it's possible that I give off a closed off, quiet energy. How do I change that?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:11     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
you don't have confidence. she does. men know this.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:08     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Anonymous wrote:Op have you posted here before about relationship/attracting a man advice?

She's a troll?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:07     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
You are probably giving off closed energy. I would bet your body language is very insecure.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:01     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Does your friend appear more approachable? Does she make more eye contact and smile more at others?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 23:00     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Op have you posted here before about relationship/attracting a man advice?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:58     Subject: Re:When your friend attracts guys and you don't
what kind of eye contact are you making? is she flirting when she glances at them. you have to let men know you are interested somehow. maybe she is without realizing it or you are giving off a not interested vibe and don't know it. practice smiling with your eyes and slight changes of the mouth. you have to look but not stare, but long enough for them to also see you checking them out.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:57     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
Is that how you want to get a boyfriend?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:54     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
You may get hit on more than you realize.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:47     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
That was me, OP. No words of advice, but I think I just gave off a more conservative, hard to read vibe. Too much work for the guys.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:46     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
"Appeal" isn't just your looks.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 22:44     Subject: When your friend attracts guys and you don't
And yet all of our male friends think that my friend and I are equally attractive? Some of them think I'm slightly cuter, I just dress a little more conservatively (though she doesn't dress remotely "skanky" at all, just more figure-fitting). But I don't understand why whenever we go out, even for lunch during the day time, my friend constantly gets hit on. This happens to several of my other friends too. I never get hit on.

And yet all my friends insist that I'm good-looking. My male friends tell me I'm attractive too. I just feel so resentful and upset and confused. Anyone else find themselves in my position?