Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 13:16     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Congrats! Look, while the marriage thing didn't work out, you two sound like good parents and this is maybe your last chance for a baby. Enjoy it!
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:52     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Congratulations on the baby. I don't have much advice, just sending good thoughts to you and your family.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:36     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
I don't know. You have a man. You have 4 kids. What are you looking for in the dating market? Just get back together.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:33     Subject: Re:Pregnant by ex-DH
I don't know that you should get back together. My parents couldn't live together, but they could be good friends when they were apart. They could also co-parent effectively when they were apart. I never asked if they were still having sex, because I didn't want to know. We took family vacations together with both divorced parents. It worked fine for them.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:28     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
You should get back together. At least for a couple years. You have confirmed to any future guy that you will continue to bang your ex and who wants to walk into that?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:15     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Anonymous wrote:We have been divorced for 2 years now and have dated others during this time. We currently have three kids together under the age 10, so this will be our 4th. Both are great parents but not great spouses. We discussed options and decided to keep the baby. I've been beating up myself over this for even hanging out with him again, but dating him is better than being his wife if that makes sense. Guess I have to give up on the dating scene now.


I guess so. Growing up and taking responsibilty for your actions, let alone the 4 kids you've created, would be another good plan.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 12:05     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Wow, that was dumb. Way to confuse the kids.

Now everyone will know you are a ho and were banging your ex.
I bet he has banged others too.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 11:57     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Congratulations!!!
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 10:08     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
I dont mean this in a critical way, but let me observe that you two seem to make your lives unnecessarily complicated.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 09:53     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Congrats on the baby!

May as well reconcile, because child support for 4 kiddos will keep him broke and miserable anyway!
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 08:48     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Anonymous wrote:It's def his and we both know it. I've been on dates but it was just that, dates. This is why I'm pregnant now, two years without sex!


We get it--birth control eludes both of you. What is your point?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 08:46     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
It's def his and we both know it. I've been on dates but it was just that, dates. This is why I'm pregnant now, two years without sex!
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 08:45     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Anonymous wrote:We have been divorced for 2 years now and have dated others during this time. We currently have three kids together under the age 10, so this will be our 4th. Both are great parents but not great spouses. We discussed options and decided to keep the baby. I've been beating up myself over this for even hanging out with him again, but dating him is better than being his wife if that makes sense. Guess I have to give up on the dating scene now.


Okay. Is there a question here, or did you just want to share that in 2014 and with kids neither you nor your ex-husband are well-versed in how birth control works?
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 08:41     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
Probably not even his
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2014 08:34     Subject: Pregnant by ex-DH
We have been divorced for 2 years now and have dated others during this time. We currently have three kids together under the age 10, so this will be our 4th. Both are great parents but not great spouses. We discussed options and decided to keep the baby. I've been beating up myself over this for even hanging out with him again, but dating him is better than being his wife if that makes sense. Guess I have to give up on the dating scene now.