Anonymous wrote:Legally, all public schools in the country are required to follow the 504 or IEP requirements. The reality is a very different story. If your home school has the capacity and resources to make the accommodations or provide special education services then they will. If they don't have the resources, which many do not, they will ignore it or only accommodate it partially. MCPS is a very large system. Some principals and special educators will bend over backward to do the most with what they can and meet the requirements. Other principals and special educators do not uphold the law either because staff is burnt out, some don't understand the law and take a perspective that a 504 or IEP is about just getting by, and others lack the organization to manage these.
At the next level up, the situation changes. MCPS has a very bad reputation in being hostile toward any appeals by special ed parents. If you have enough money to pay for your own lawyer or educational advocate and you are educated enough to know the law then you will be OK. If you have limited means then you will have a much harder time ensuring that your child's accommodations are met.
You are jumping into the appeal process for Special Ed parents when OP is asking for basic information about what schools are appropriate for her child. You have a lot of wonderful information to share but can you see how overwhelming this amount of information is?
OP, as a parent of a child with physical disabilities (child with cerebral palsy who is bright), I can say that MoCo does a very good job of accommodating the orthopedically handicapped. Schools and programs become trickier as the child gets older. But kindergarten and elementary schools have strong programs.
I would avoid DC. It has a terrible reputation.
Montgomery County and Northern Virginia are going to be equal.