We desperately need some counseling and base on recommendations here and some subsequent reading, I'm interested in trying to persuade DH to try Emotionally Focused Therapy. I like that there is an end game - about 12 sessions and stats re results, instead of facing the prospect of couples counseling that goes on and on and gets us nowhere.
There is a list of certified therapists here
http://www.ocfi.ca/cgi-bin/eft/searchbyprovince.cgi . It would be nice to hear from someone who has a good experience with a particular therapist. Bethesda, Silver Spring or Kensington would work for us.
Thank you.