Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thus us fur the men out there mostly, but all input welcome:

Would you get angry if your spouse rearranged a guest room while cleaning it? Not annoyed...angry.

I'd get angry if my spouse randomly posed nonsensical questions like this to me.

Agree. I'd be more upset if my spouse went to some anonymous strangers for advice on our communication and marriage rather than coming and talking about it to me. But then, we discuss most things, including changes pretty openly, either just before or just after the fact. So, if my spouse rearranged furniture, I would expect within a day or so, we'd have a conversation about why the furniture needed to be rearranged. Then if I had any input on it, we'd talk and one of us would try to implement what was discussed.

Anonymous wrote:Thus us fur the men out there mostly, but all input welcome:

Would you get angry if your spouse rearranged a guest room while cleaning it? Not annoyed...angry.

I'd get angry if my spouse randomly posed nonsensical questions like this to me.

Anonymous wrote:No, but my first question would not be, why did you rearrange the room? It would be "alright, wtf did you buy now that you think you can hide from me...."

Lol. This made me laugh. It could more likely be what did he buy and hide that he thinks I might accidentally have found.

No, but my first question would not be, why did you rearrange the room? It would be "alright, wtf did you buy now that you think you can hide from me...."

Anonymous wrote:Angry? Get a life. It is just furniture.

I think you have your answer.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, for someone sight impaired. Would take a while to get used to the new arrangement without bumping into things.

OP. Let's assume no issues like that exist.

Yes, for someone sight impaired. Would take a while to get used to the new arrangement without bumping into things.

Heh. I did that in the living room and it took my husband a week to notice. I think angry is out of line. Annoyed is maybe ok if there is other stuff that was not done because of the time it took to rearrange etc.

Angry? Get a life. It is just furniture.

Angry? There's a strong chance I wouldn't even notice.

Unless she arranged stuffs, my wife doesn't do shit.

Anonymous wrote:No, unless there was something else totally unrelated that I was pissed off about.

Exactly:
Wife is never in the mood for sex. She rearranges the guest room furniture.
Husband: What the hell are you doing??? I can't believe you rearranged that furniture! OMG, you are such a mean person.

Husband never calls when he is coming home late. Wife sitting there waiting. Or husband has to be reminded a hundred times to help with baby. He decides to help out by cleaning the guest room and rearranges the furniture.
Wife: What the hell are you doing??? I can't believe you did that? Go to hell!!!

No, unless there was something else totally unrelated that I was pissed off about.

No, probably not even annoyed unless I had my work desk set up in front of a window and now it faced a wall.

Thus us fur the men out there mostly, but all input welcome:

Would you get angry if your spouse rearranged a guest room while cleaning it? Not annoyed...angry.