Tell your dad to tell mom to stop being lazy. Tell her to take care of her own kid. If she needs a ride to the ER, call her a cab. I would only help care for your dad or stepmom. They are sick and need help, not lazy grown adults.

Step mother has strep not step

My father just had surgery(as in friday) stepmother has step.

My two other siblings (much older, one much younger, teen) are at my parents already, one with her young child.. Both have refused to do anything to help and now sister with child Inists her child is also ill (she loves to medicate her child and seem to get a real rise out of taking him to the hospital - everytime she is turned away because he isn't ill).

My father is already uptight and telling me to cancel plans with family on my moms side because he need all my help since my other siblings are being unhelpful. My sibling with a child is apparently not paying any attention to her 'ill' child and making my dad watch him and prepare while she sits on her phone playing games...

Just so over this holiday already...