I accrue leave with each paycheck (4 weeks). At the start of each calendar year I sit down and figure out our big vacation, thanksgiving and Christmas plans. We normally budget 1-2 weeks on our big vacation, 1 week for Christmas if we're traveling to my family (every other year. In laws live nearby and we don't take any time off to see them on their year) and then a week for random trips that pop up like weddings, funerals and weekend trips. I have pretty good job security so I only normally have about a week in my leave bank.
My friend who works for a defense contractor is always afraid of being laid off so she always has 3 weeks in her leave bank. If she was laid off it would be paid out to her.