Five was when my DD asked to cut her long hair into a little bob above her shoulders, and started getting more tomboy-ish. Often it's a phase. Sometimes it's not.

OP,

I really wouldn't worry about this. It's okay for kids to want to identify as the other gender. This probably is a phase but if it's not, it's really not your place to say or do anything b/c it's not your kid. Wouldn't you love your niece either way?

well i want to ask this question, what if your daughter who is 5years tell your she is a boy, what would you. well this is what happen and my sister cut her hear like a boy buy her boy clothing boy breaf too. the prablem i have what happen when she start public school she used the boy bathroom when she go out. i love this girl but is very warried for her please give me some advise