Anonymous wrote:I don't know the Waldorf schools in this area well, but in general I think that Waldorf and Aspergers is a bad fit.
Waldorf strongly discourages early reading, and the use of technology, both areas in which kids with Aspergers often do well. It places a lot of emphasis on fine motor skills and pretend play, which are often weaknesses for kids with Aspergers. On top of that many Waldorf schools have a reputation for very loose structure, which is generally a bad fit for kids with Aspergers.
I agree that public school is a good place to start. You'll have access to far more supports, and a more differentiated curriculum. In addition, in private schools you often have a choice between progressive schools, which often have very loose structure, and more traditional schools which have a tight structure, but often aren't forgiving of students who need support to acclimate to that structure.
I agree. We looked at Washington Waldorf for DS before we realized he has Asperger's. We attended their once a week program for 2s. Looking back now that DS is 6, it was the right decision. It would not be a good fit.
DS attends a language immersion public charter since prek4 and it's a great fit. DS is very adroit with languages, loves technology, but needs clear expectations and structure. Has an IEP. No issues at all academically or socially. Try public, you maybe pleasantly surprised. We were. GL!