Anonymous
11/24/2013 19:46
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Paola Sandoval in Fairfax. Her Therapy Today website doesn't list couples counseling (she's a sexual assault trauma therapist) but she does do couples counseling as well. Evening and weekend appointments only/mostly.
Anonymous
11/24/2013 18:02
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Anonymous wrote:
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Yeah....I'll get right on that....
Anonymous
11/24/2013 16:03
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify also. i saw a post on how a lady got her husband back and i decided to try this prophet that helped her because my relationship was crashing. this prophet helped me and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my husband now treats me like a queen even when he had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, i can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship try him here is his email prophet.briancarn@yahoo.com of a truth he really helps.
Anonymous
11/16/2013 20:58
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Anonymous wrote:anyone?
Have you done a search here on DCUM? This is a common request.
Anonymous
11/16/2013 20:37
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Ditto 19:00.
Anonymous
11/16/2013 17:51
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Judy Mazza in Bethesda. Active approach therapy. The Best. Highly respected. She helped save my marriage.
Her website looks sterile, but she is far from that. www.familytherapy.com
Her website looks sterile, but she is far from that. www.familytherapy.com
Anonymous
11/15/2013 20:57
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Anonymous wrote:My 10+ year marriage seems to be falling apart. We need help in a lot of areas. Does anyone have any good recommendations for therapists that are proactive and really get to the bottom of issues quickly.
Please. We are in the Herndon area but are willing to travel if the therapist is worth it.
Consider looking for solution oriented therapy. I've also heard it called "SOTB" or solution oriented brief therapy. Instead of trying to find the cause of issues which can sometimes take forever and go back to your childhood, they look for the actions you can take to improve things now. The entire point is to help things get better fast.
On the flip side, I've heard that it is similar to putting a band-aid on the problems, but won't really solve them. Still, I think it would be better to see improvement fast. You always have the option to continue with more traditional therapy to get to the bottom of things later. But if you don't see improvement fast, you may not still have a marriage, depending on just how bad your situation is.
Anonymous
11/15/2013 20:37
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Anonymous wrote:Check for Counselors that use Imago therapy.
I read Getting the Love You Want a long time ago and thought it was just what we needed, but my DH and the counselor talked me into sticking with the therapist we were seeing. After six years (!) of useless therapy with that therapist, I finally called it quits and sought divorce. At that point DH finally said okay let's try your idea. We haven't done it yet because I'm still thinking divorce but with still a child at home I'm thinking maybe we should give the relationship one more chance. I think Imago focuses on understanding the other person's viewpoint, and offers specific guidelines on how to talk to each other constructively. That would have prevented the final straw in our couples therapy where DH called me an asshole threw the contents of his drink at me.
You can search local providers on Google, use "Imago Relationship Therapy"
From Wikipedia: Imago is a form of marriage therapy that takes a relationship approach rather than an individual approach to problem solving in a marriage.[1] Developed in 1980 in Dallas, Texas by Dr. Harville Hendrix, founder of the Samaritan Center of Relationship Therapy,[1] Imago means " 'the inner unconscious image of the opposite sex' or what you're looking for in a partner but aren't aware of."[2] Hendrix memorialized imago therapy in his 1988 book, Getting the Love You Want, A Guide for Couples.
We hated Imago therapy. It made things worse.
Anonymous
11/15/2013 19:00
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
My sense is that Imago requires that both partners are motivated to change, and to accept change from the other. My DH was looking to fix me, and so it fell apart when the spotlight turned to him.
Unfortunately we've had more bad luck with marriage counselors than good luck.
Unfortunately we've had more bad luck with marriage counselors than good luck.
Anonymous
11/15/2013 11:18
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
Check for Counselors that use Imago therapy.
I read Getting the Love You Want a long time ago and thought it was just what we needed, but my DH and the counselor talked me into sticking with the therapist we were seeing. After six years (!) of useless therapy with that therapist, I finally called it quits and sought divorce. At that point DH finally said okay let's try your idea. We haven't done it yet because I'm still thinking divorce but with still a child at home I'm thinking maybe we should give the relationship one more chance. I think Imago focuses on understanding the other person's viewpoint, and offers specific guidelines on how to talk to each other constructively. That would have prevented the final straw in our couples therapy where DH called me an asshole threw the contents of his drink at me.
You can search local providers on Google, use "Imago Relationship Therapy"
From Wikipedia: Imago is a form of marriage therapy that takes a relationship approach rather than an individual approach to problem solving in a marriage.[1] Developed in 1980 in Dallas, Texas by Dr. Harville Hendrix, founder of the Samaritan Center of Relationship Therapy,[1] Imago means " 'the inner unconscious image of the opposite sex' or what you're looking for in a partner but aren't aware of."[2] Hendrix memorialized imago therapy in his 1988 book, Getting the Love You Want, A Guide for Couples.
I read Getting the Love You Want a long time ago and thought it was just what we needed, but my DH and the counselor talked me into sticking with the therapist we were seeing. After six years (!) of useless therapy with that therapist, I finally called it quits and sought divorce. At that point DH finally said okay let's try your idea. We haven't done it yet because I'm still thinking divorce but with still a child at home I'm thinking maybe we should give the relationship one more chance. I think Imago focuses on understanding the other person's viewpoint, and offers specific guidelines on how to talk to each other constructively. That would have prevented the final straw in our couples therapy where DH called me an asshole threw the contents of his drink at me.
You can search local providers on Google, use "Imago Relationship Therapy"
From Wikipedia: Imago is a form of marriage therapy that takes a relationship approach rather than an individual approach to problem solving in a marriage.[1] Developed in 1980 in Dallas, Texas by Dr. Harville Hendrix, founder of the Samaritan Center of Relationship Therapy,[1] Imago means " 'the inner unconscious image of the opposite sex' or what you're looking for in a partner but aren't aware of."[2] Hendrix memorialized imago therapy in his 1988 book, Getting the Love You Want, A Guide for Couples.
Anonymous
11/15/2013 11:02
Subject: Re:Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
No suggestion, unfortunately, but looking for someone similar in the Falls Church, McLean, Tysons area.
Anonymous
11/15/2013 09:55
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
anyone?
Anonymous
11/15/2013 08:18
Subject: Relationship/couples counseling recommendations needed
My 10+ year marriage seems to be falling apart. We need help in a lot of areas. Does anyone have any good recommendations for therapists that are proactive and really get to the bottom of issues quickly.
Please. We are in the Herndon area but are willing to travel if the therapist is worth it.
Please. We are in the Herndon area but are willing to travel if the therapist is worth it.