Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Gloria Mog - she is trained in IMAGO therapy which was very helpful for my husband and me. Good luck.
IMAGO was a nightmare for us. And Gottman has nothing to do with it.
Would love to hear more about your experience. Did you find Gottman helpful? Or anything else?
Sorry, I didn't express that well. What I meant was, IMAGO did not work AT ALL for us. It felt very rote and stiff and overall very ineffective. To my knowledge there are no studies supporting its efficacy.
Gottman OTOH has done boatloads of clinicial-based research on what makes marriages work/fail. If you can find a counselor who uses Gottman methods for counseling I imagine it would be helpful (in contrast to IMAGO). I'm afraid I don't have any recs for that, but I do recommend you avoid IMAGO.