Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 16:17     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
NO. DW has issues and over time they have hurt our intimacy. Now it is a sexless/affection-less marriage.

Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 15:15     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Anonymous wrote:No, but it's good. The best I ever had was with someone who was totally unsuitable as a partner.


OP here. This is the same for me. But I was totally obsessed, and not in a good way.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:55     Subject: Re:Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
He is the only sex partner I have ever had...(we were high school sweethearts)


Same here.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:53     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Anonymous wrote:No, but it's good. The best I ever had was with someone who was totally unsuitable as a partner.


Ditto. Guy was 15 years older, an absolute expert and could never get enough. Total spender, even a smoker [shudder}. But man could he use his tongue.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:52     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Anonymous wrote:He is the only sex partner I have ever had...(we were high school sweethearts)


Awww
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:49     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
No, but it's good. The best I ever had was with someone who was totally unsuitable as a partner.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:48     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
He is the only sex partner I have ever had...(we were high school sweethearts)
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:47     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Damn near. In my experience, no partner is A++ 100% of the time. I have happily settled with someone who is really good 90% of the time.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:44     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
It's pretty good, can't complain.Helps that I find him to be hot.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:43     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Nope, but the overall package of who he is as a person combining all aspects is by far the best I've ever had.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:42     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Sadly, no. He's not the worst but definitely not the best. However, he has potential, we just need to work on it.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:42     Subject: Re:Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
Anonymous wrote:It's the absolute best sex I have ever had. Orgasm every time for me and he cums every time. We are both freaks to the fullest so that helps that we are on the same page. We also spice things up all the time, such as strip clubs, sex in semi public places, sex toys/shops etc. maybe this should have been in the explicit forum? Sorry


Yup this is us as well. Just add in adding other couples/people to our mix a couple of times a year.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:41     Subject: Re:Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
No. In fact, I married my H in part because he was sexually non threatening and didn't make me lose my mind. Don't like feeling out of control of the relationship.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:40     Subject: Re:Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
It's the absolute best sex I have ever had. Orgasm every time for me and he cums every time. We are both freaks to the fullest so that helps that we are on the same page. We also spice things up all the time, such as strip clubs, sex in semi public places, sex toys/shops etc. maybe this should have been in the explicit forum? Sorry
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2013 14:36     Subject: Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
For me no. The sex is good, but SO doesn't blow my mind. I had a fling years ago (when I was very much single) where the sex was amazing. I think it was the phermones as I was instantly physically attracted to this person. I would love to have mind blowing sex again, but I just don't have the chemical attraction to SO and would never betray my marriage vows as I love my SO dearly.

Just wondering what other people's marriage/long term relationships are like.