I never did either. Growing up, I never had formal lessons. My son (5 yrs) WAS (yay!) so fearful of putting his head under water and not knowing how to swim myself, I really couldn't help him past the fear. I found an old post on this forum about private lessons in S. Arl. and am so glad I did. We both can now swim and my son loves the water so much, I honestly think he is part fish!
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