Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 15:10     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

I prefer the term "conveniently located, economically priced sex professional."
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 13:44     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Well yeah, clearly men do this; there wouldn't be so many prostitutes if there weren't demand. I just suspect that a relatively small number of men (typically not in the DCUM demographic) account for a large percentage of all visits.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 13:40     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

I know one of my husband's friends has absolutely slept with multiple expensive prostitutes in his 20s. From what I can tell, he wanted to get some sexual experience because he never found anyone to hook up with him until either late college or after college. There was also a guy in college who talked about sleeping with prostitutes while he traveled to SE Asia.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 13:33     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Anonymous wrote:True. But my buddies and I know a lot of unflattering things about one another. It seems highly unlikely that my friends would have used a prostitute and never mentioned to me. Possible, certainly; but based on how we interact with each other, unlikely.


This. I don't know any of my friends who have been with a hooker, and I know extremely embarassing things about most of them.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 12:22     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

DH here: I think it is relatively unusual for men to visit prostitutes, and my guess is that a small percentage of men account for the vast majority of such visits. Having said that, I think you should not be too hard on him for a one-time thing he fessed up to. We all make mistakes from time to time.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 11:35     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Gross. Pathetic pigs.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 11:32     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nope. Out of all of my friends, I only know of one who has. It was a lot lizard at a truck stop.


Well, then there are those friends who haven't fessed up.
You only know what they've told you, after all.


True. But my buddies and I know a lot of unflattering things about one another. It seems highly unlikely that my friends would have used a prostitute and never mentioned to me. Possible, certainly; but based on how we interact with each other, unlikely.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 10:46     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?


I'm a man and would never pay for sex, but I can tell you that it is much more common than women think. It is not exactly something that men talk about with their wives or girlfriends. It pretty much falls under bros before hos category.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 10:44     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Out of all of my friends, I only know of one who has. It was a lot lizard at a truck stop.


Well, then there are those friends who haven't fessed up.
You only know what they've told you, after all.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 10:41     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Out of all of my friends, I only know of one who has. It was a lot lizard at a truck stop.


Makes me sad. The poor girl was probably a trafficking victim, possibly underage.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 09:35     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Anonymous wrote:Or escort, or streetwalker, or prostitute or sex worker, or whatever they call it these days?

DH owned up to being with one when on a business trip. This was before marriage. Before we had ever met. I'm still beside myself. He says it is much more common than I can imagine, especially in the Internet age. Say it ain't so. Men out there, is there even a sliver of truth to this? Were you single at the time? How often? Protected or not?!


It's more common than you think. I've visited pros when I was single, attached and married. 100% condom.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 09:25     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

No. I know one guy - always a bit weird when it came to women - who has slept with a bunch of prostitutes, but I would be very surprised if many of my other friends ever have.

I don't think it is common, or normal. Maybe if you are fifty and live alone, but for most guys if you are that desperate you can find someone willing to hook up without being paid.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 09:13     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Nope. Out of all of my friends, I only know of one who has. It was a lot lizard at a truck stop.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 09:12     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

I know a few married men do it at my office when they go on travel. One guy is so gross he sometimes goes for lunch time massages with a happy ending.

I only know these things because I'm the only woman at my office and it is like I work in a men's locker room.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2013 08:55     Subject: Men out there - have you ever been with a hooker?

Or escort, or streetwalker, or prostitute or sex worker, or whatever they call it these days?

DH owned up to being with one when on a business trip. This was before marriage. Before we had ever met. I'm still beside myself. He says it is much more common than I can imagine, especially in the Internet age. Say it ain't so. Men out there, is there even a sliver of truth to this? Were you single at the time? How often? Protected or not?!