Your husband should bring it up at dinner. Or "accidentally" unplug the modem/disconnect the cable or something.

ugh - creepy FIL.

Is he watching pregnant lady porn? LOL! That would be worse.

Drop something heavy then yell "I'm ok!" It just lets him know that if he can hear you, you can hear him.

Definitely let DH handle. And then post on Facebook. This is a modern classic.

Okay, then put the baby down, open the door and shout out something like, "Hey Bob, did you call? I thought I heard someone calling me!"

well we are visiting them. Which is why I am trapped in this room.

Ugh
Open the door and yell " Hey I can hear that"
If you are ballsy enough to watch porn at MY house in MY living room, I am just that bitch to call you out on it'

Is FIL masturbating?

One Christmas visit, I was helping in the IL's kitchen and DH walked in on his younger brother getting a blow job from his girlfriend in the brother's bedroom.

Of course, DH had to blab all to me. This was over 30 years ago. Hard to forget.

Hell, I'd just look him in the eye and say, "Hey Bob, next time you're on your laptop, can you please drop the volume?I can hear it up in the bedroom. Thanksomuch. Can you pass the salt?"

Oy.

Ugh, gross. I agree, let your DH field this one.

I mean we all watch porn (lets just be honest!), but sheesh.. be aware of people around ya!

Lol Im just perplexed that he doesn't think I can hear that up here. I don't want to awkwardly shut the door, then he might know I hear it. Surely when DH gets back from the pharmacy, FIL will have turned it off. I won't dare go down stairs... don't know what ill find, or if I can unsee it. haha

That's disgusting. No, you should not say anything, except maybe to your husband so you can be disgusted/laugh about it together. No reason you should have to suffer alone.

And I can hear my FIL watching porn... should I say something?

I feel so uncomfortable. Im nursing in the upstairs bedroom and he must have his laptop volume all the way up in the living room. ARRGH