Anonymous wrote:not only you should not be the go between, but you should not give detail about somebody else's health condition to others without that person's consent. You did the right thing, if they want to know, they can call themselves, and the sick sibling will or will not tell, depending on what she wants to do.
This is really at the heart of my problem. If my sibling is not speaking to people I have no business sharing her medical info. Actually, now I am feeling badly that I shared anything at all. It was a tough call. Sibling could have died. But I would never do it again. Not sure if I think it is drama, it is just weird lack of compassion on the part of my siblings.
Ah well. Over for now I guess.