Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thing is, you might not be able to return. That's the sticking point.
Unless they are near end of life, would a year really enable you to finish up your caregiving? They will only get sicker, weaker, and more in need of help as time wears on.
Why would I not be able to return? I have status and would not expect to go back to my current agency, but my job is one that tends to have a low rate of unemployment. True, I can't say a year would cover it precisely, but one is near end of life, yes. Private industry is also a possibility, I have experience other than Fed. Anyway: I guess what I'm looking for is hearing from other people who finally made the decision to take time out of career for caregiving so I can see what bases need to be covered, in addition to my specific question about COBRA. Thank you to the pp who answered that.
Well, good luck if all you want is people telling you to go for it. Some of us have learned that hard way that things often don't work out the way you hope.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thing is, you might not be able to return. That's the sticking point.
Unless they are near end of life, would a year really enable you to finish up your caregiving? They will only get sicker, weaker, and more in need of help as time wears on.
Why would I not be able to return? I have status and would not expect to go back to my current agency, but my job is one that tends to have a low rate of unemployment. True, I can't say a year would cover it precisely, but one is near end of life, yes. Private industry is also a possibility, I have experience other than Fed. Anyway: I guess what I'm looking for is hearing from other people who finally made the decision to take time out of career for caregiving so I can see what bases need to be covered, in addition to my specific question about COBRA. Thank you to the pp who answered that.
Well, good luck if all you want is people telling you to go for it. Some of us have learned that hard way that things often don't work out the way you hope.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thing is, you might not be able to return. That's the sticking point.
Unless they are near end of life, would a year really enable you to finish up your caregiving? They will only get sicker, weaker, and more in need of help as time wears on.
Why would I not be able to return? I have status and would not expect to go back to my current agency, but my job is one that tends to have a low rate of unemployment. True, I can't say a year would cover it precisely, but one is near end of life, yes. Private industry is also a possibility, I have experience other than Fed. Anyway: I guess what I'm looking for is hearing from other people who finally made the decision to take time out of career for caregiving so I can see what bases need to be covered, in addition to my specific question about COBRA. Thank you to the pp who answered that.
Anonymous wrote:The thing is, you might not be able to return. That's the sticking point.
Unless they are near end of life, would a year really enable you to finish up your caregiving? They will only get sicker, weaker, and more in need of help as time wears on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unless you have shitloads of money, you would be crazy to give up a federal job right now. You will never get it back, at least not for yours.
Burn through your sick leave, then fmla. Are they in the same city as you? Because you can use fmla to go part time. You are entitled to that by law.
Who knows, given the budget, yr boss may let you take leave or go part time after that. The budget may be tight and he probably wouldn't be allowed to fill an empty slot.
And you do not need to "establish yourself as a primary care giver" it just needs to be an immediate family member or someone who is like an immediate family member.
This is OP. I understand I will never get my current job back if I leave. Yes, they are in the same city. The problem is my job is not flexible and my boss is not supportive, and keeps making remarks that make it clear that he is being inconvenienced by my need to take sick leave to accompany parents to the doctor, etc. I have not been able to negotiate any reduction in job duties so working PT doesn't really make sense, plus boss doesn't support it. I could argue with him and talk to HR, but I don't have months to deal with that. It is probably true that boss cannot fill my slot if I need to quit. I don't have "shitloads of money" but we could swing a year without me working and could absorb reduction in salary when I'm able to return. Frankly, I'm not superwoman and want to get my priorities straight and take care of those who need me without feeling guilty all the time.
Anonymous wrote:Unless you have shitloads of money, you would be crazy to give up a federal job right now. You will never get it back, at least not for yours.
Burn through your sick leave, then fmla. Are they in the same city as you? Because you can use fmla to go part time. You are entitled to that by law.
Who knows, given the budget, yr boss may let you take leave or go part time after that. The budget may be tight and he probably wouldn't be allowed to fill an empty slot.
And you do not need to "establish yourself as a primary care giver" it just needs to be an immediate family member or someone who is like an immediate family member.
Anonymous wrote:I do not think my boss will approve a leave of absence, and I may have to take some time off work to devote to caregiving responsibilities for young kids and aging parents (cancer, Alzheimers). My husband is self employed so I'm the insured one. While we search for health insurance, or he moves to employee status, can I get a COBRA from my Fed job? Does anybody know the details, i.e., how long, cost? Anybody taken time out of the Feds and gone back? Thanks for any insights.