Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Really? Most single women I know would never waste a second dating a married guy.
Every married guy I know who is having an affair is doing it with an unhappily married woman
Of course they are going to say they wouldn't ever be with a married guy. What single woman, who's often thinking of her Dream Wedding and 2.1 kids or on continuing her Sex and the City lifestyle (yeah, I'm stereotyping), is going to say "Yeah, I think being a mistress sounds like the right idea!"
This resolve fizzles the moment they meet a married guy that hits the right button -- and it needn't necessarily be him being hot/rich (tho' it helps!)
... you know, like a lot of other resolves.
"When the two people who thus discover that they are on the same secret road are of different sexes, the friendship which a rises between them will very easily pass - may pass in the first half-hour - into erotic love. Indeed, unless they are physically repulsive to each other or unless one or both already loves elsewhere, it is almost certain to do so sooner or later."
--CS Lewis, The Four Loves