Anonymous
Post 09/14/2013 08:50     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Anonymous wrote:I take issue OP with your use of the word "allow?"

She is your wife, however she is free to do whatever she wants with her body as long as she stays faithful to you as your wife.

Anyway, my sister did this for a gay couple and she made quite a lot of dough. She and her hubby got out of a lot of debt and it literally brought them back up.

Sure, being preggers with twins was tough for nine mos., but well worth the payout.


I don't agree with this. The decisions she makes with her body impact the whole family.
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2013 08:48     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Fuck no. My cumdumpster does as I say.
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2013 05:42     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
No. I don't approve of surrogacy.
Anonymous
Post 09/14/2013 04:55     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
I take issue OP with your use of the word "allow?"

She is your wife, however she is free to do whatever she wants with her body as long as she stays faithful to you as your wife.

Anyway, my sister did this for a gay couple and she made quite a lot of dough. She and her hubby got out of a lot of debt and it literally brought them back up.

Sure, being preggers with twins was tough for nine mos., but well worth the payout.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 22:22     Subject: Re:Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DW here. My bestfriend since childhood was having trouble getting pregnant. I told DH I would consider being a surrogate for her. He said he didn't agree with it bc for fear of complications and fear of what our kids would think.


I agree with him. I don't think you should do it. But the word choice allow bothers me.[/quote

Women on here post about allowing their husband to do things all the time...would you allow your husband to travel overseas when you are 33 weeks pregnant, would you allow your husband to x,y,z.

I think most intelligent people can figure out what OP meant and I appreciate that his wife wanted him to be in agreement with a decision to rent out her womb. To me that is a respectful partner. I hate the my body, I do what I want with it, he gets no say attitude. I would expect my husband to ask me if I was in agreement for a major decision that impacted our family, even if it involved his body.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 22:18     Subject: Re:Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Anonymous wrote:DW here. My bestfriend since childhood was having trouble getting pregnant. I told DH I would consider being a surrogate for her. He said he didn't agree with it bc for fear of complications and fear of what our kids would think.


I agree with him. I don't think you should do it. But the word choice allow bothers me.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 22:12     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Anonymous wrote:Would you allow your spouse to donate an organ for money?


The first kidney, sure. It's the second kidney where I start to question it.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 20:52     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Would you allow your spouse to donate an organ for money?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 20:51     Subject: Re:Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
DW here. My bestfriend since childhood was having trouble getting pregnant. I told DH I would consider being a surrogate for her. He said he didn't agree with it bc for fear of complications and fear of what our kids would think.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 19:28     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
OP, do you have objections? If so, what are they? My SIL wanted to help out another family and went through part of the process, but it never succeeded medically (I don't know the details), so she never got embryos planted.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 19:24     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
No. This would necessitate her leaving the house and seeing a doctor, which I also do not allow.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 18:59     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Allow. Heh.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 18:55     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
Allow??
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 18:40     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
"Allow"? It is her body, not yours
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2013 18:26     Subject: Would you allow your wife to be a surrogate
for $?