We just went through this discussion with ds who is in 7th grade. He is a excellent athlete who plays soccer in the fall and spring and basketball in the winter. He lobbied us the last 2 weeks to join the school football team. He said kids were recruiting him to be a kicker. We resisted our knee-jerk response of "no" and genuinely listened. We said we wanted to talk with the coach and find out more information. In the meantime, he talked with older relatives about joining the team. Without any prompting from us, my dad, who played all through high school and some college, shared his concerns about concussions and injury and the reports coming out now. I think that was a turning point for ds because the next day he decided he didn't want to pursue it.
It was a pretty awesome parenting moment--our tween saved us from having to say no.
