About her possible major, some things to keep in mind:
Speech—generally requires master’s degree. Undergrad major less important but she will want to have studied linguistics, psychology, anatomy, general science.
PA—requires graduate degree. Undergrad major need not be science but must include upper-level work in science and behavioral science/psychology, so similar to pre-med coursework.
So, if she wants to do speech or PA (or med school), she can go anywhere for undergrad, including to a small liberal arts college. But if she thinks she might want a bachelor’s in nursing, she obviously needs to go to a school that offers a BSN. Although, she could also get a general BA or BS degree and then get her master’s in nursing.
If I were advising your DD, I would also try to get her to define some parameters unrelated to the course of study:
Are there financial limitations, and if so, what sort? Will the family qualify for (i.e., require) a lot of financial aid? If so, your first important cut should be to eliminate schools that aren’t generous with financial aid. Will the family not qualify for much/any financial aid but still need/want a lower-priced education? If so, she should focus on in-state schools and schools that are generous with merit aid **for students with similar stats to your DD’s.** Keep in mind that if merit aid is desirable/necessary, your DD will have a better chance of getting it if she focuses her search AWAY from the highly popular northeast/mid-Atlantic region. This website has GREAT information about how to sort out schools based on financial and merit aid:
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/finding-the-most-generous-colleges/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/is-this-college-generous/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/a-53-discount-of-colleges/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/beware-of-the-college-bait-and-switch/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/getting-stiffed-by-syracuse-university/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/a-teenagers-merit-scholarship-offers/
http://www.thecollegesolution.com/a-look-at-11-merit-scholarship-offers/
Other important questions: Does your DD want to stay in the area? mid-Atlantic region? On the east coast? Or does she want to go far away for school? Does she want a large, medium, or small school? Urban, suburban, or rural? Will she want to live on-campus? This site has a great search engine that allows you to set these kinds of parameters.
https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/college-search
Some students think they want big urban school but when they visit small college towns, they like that better, and vice versa. Sometimes it helps just to visit some local campuses to get a feel for what "big" and "small" and "urban" vs "rural" really means.
Hope something here is helpful. Good luck!