I think I would go in a completely different direction--to a second-tier small liberal arts college that will provide better support for her as she continues to "bloom." I would check out the "Colleges that Change Lives." This is primarily a marketing distinction, but it highlights some lesser known LACs that really do provide a top-notch education. A student like your DD would benefit, IMO, from a teaching-focused, rather than a research-focused, institution.
I know you said "not liberal arts," but unless your DD has some particular vocational interest (nursing? engineering? accounting?), I don't understand why a big university is the necessary default.
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