Poor thing. The sun can trigger an outbreak, too.
In addition to the lysine and acyclovir, the best thing you can do is make sure she gets enough sleep, doesn't get run down, etc. It's very frustrating for sure.
DS started getting terrible cold sores when he was about three or four. Now that he's eight, he hardly ever gets one and when he does, it's much less severe. I think the virus does kind of burn out of your system to some extent, although never completely gone.