Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. To the PPs with first-hand experience, do you think it'd create a rift in the family if I kept my youngest away during cold and flu season? It's pretty clear that no matter what I say or do, SIL will continue this behavior. She sees no problem with it. It's my youngest who catches all of her cousin's bugs, while my oldest is impervious. Do you think it's worth the rift to keep my kid healthy?
Why don't you read that last question out loud to yourself. Pretend it is a good friend asking. You know what the answer is OP. if you're not sure, the mom police will be by in the morning to take away your mom card, credentials and badge.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. To the PPs with first-hand experience, do you think it'd create a rift in the family if I kept my youngest away during cold and flu season? It's pretty clear that no matter what I say or do, SIL will continue this behavior. She sees no problem with it. It's my youngest who catches all of her cousin's bugs, while my oldest is impervious. Do you think it's worth the rift to keep my kid healthy?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. To the PPs with first-hand experience, do you think it'd create a rift in the family if I kept my youngest away during cold and flu season? It's pretty clear that no matter what I say or do, SIL will continue this behavior. She sees no problem with it. It's my youngest who catches all of her cousin's bugs, while my oldest is impervious. Do you think it's worth the rift to keep my kid healthy?
Anonymous wrote:This won't go well, if you say anything. I know from personal experience. Someone who is willing to put others at risk and take their sick kid (who probably wants to be home in bed) is a jerk and cannot understand common decency. Which means she won't apologize or change, instead you'll get the blame. I was accused of being a horrible person after once asking if my niece was contagious before a trip-- and since have been rejected from all trips for several years. My Sil would let her sick DD touch everything, including my DDs food and face when they were toddlers. We ended up with am several bouts of strep, rsv and countless other fevers and colds. I got really sick while I was pregnant bc they came on a visit straight from urgent care.