Anonymous
Post 08/16/2013 07:43     Subject: Re:S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
OP, you are an idiot.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2013 06:26     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
This has got to be a fake post because its just beyond crazy that you'd let your child do this or fall for this.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2013 05:09     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Gay teenagers do a lot of experimenting. And kissing. And fondling.

Bad idea.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 23:04     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Anonymous wrote:She could be having sex with female friends too...gay, bi, experimenting. If your teen is bed sharing with males and females you can be pretty sure she is sexually active.


Since when is sleeping in the same bed as you best friend (both females) a sign of having sex? You've never done that?

Even the women on Golden Girls slept in the same bed together when there were guests or a situation where the people outnumbered the amount of beds.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:53     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
She could be having sex with female friends too...gay, bi, experimenting. If your teen is bed sharing with males and females you can be pretty sure she is sexually active.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:51     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
do you think they had sex?
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:46     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Anonymous wrote:you got played, mom


This is what I'm thinking. Gay or not I would not allow my teenager to sleep in the same bed as her gay "guy" friend. Sorry!
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:42     Subject: Re:S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Anonymous wrote:What? Why would two "friends" straight , gay, whatever, share a bed?

My daughters occasionally shared their bed with a same sex friend for sleepovers when we didn't have a spare bed but that ended by age 7 or so.


OP here.

DD shares bed with her friends all the time. We don't have an extra bed and she has a Queen size.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:36     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Gays like tits too.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:33     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Everyone is gay till they are naked in bed with a member of the opposite sex.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:29     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
you got played, mom
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:26     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Yeah, no. I wouldn't allow this.

I'm aware of a few incidents from my youth where sleepovers were permitted on the basis of being "gay" when really it was just a ruse to get the sleepover.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:24     Subject: Re:S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
What? Why would two "friends" straight , gay, whatever, share a bed?

My daughters occasionally shared their bed with a same sex friend for sleepovers when we didn't have a spare bed but that ended by age 7 or so.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:21     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
Um no. No bed sharing.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2013 22:19     Subject: S/O DD having a "gay" male friend spending the night
The thread about teens having sex made me think about this from a few weeks ago.
Anyway.. more to the point, a few weeks ago my DD had her friend spend the night. This was a male friend and she prefaced asking if he could stay by telling me that "oh he is gay mom!". I like to think that my "gaydar" is functional but this guy did not read gay to me at all. Anyway, I let him stay, and they slept in her bed. I don't know if anything happened, but she maintains her story of how this guy is gay. What would you think in this scenario?