I would seriously considering weaning your ds from abilify. It has a ton of side effects that can be long term. For example, a Parkinson's like movement disorder, or an erection that won't go away. If you decide to stay in it, make sure he knows that if he gets an erection and it won't go away, he needs to come to you Immediately. You will need to take him to the er to get a shot within six hours of the erection starting or he may need surgery, and the surgery can cause permamanet problems. He really should only be on abilify if he has psychosis.