1) cheater

2) addiction to drugs/alcohol

3) laziness

Constant need to keep up with the Jonses, brags a lot, overly competitive. It's not confidence -- it's so obvious it all stems from deep insecurity.

Too conservative/religious.

No friends/interests of his own.

Being stingy/cheap. This alone says so much about a man's characters and intelligence. I know.

All hat, no cattle.

Lazy. Or cocky. Or smug.

Anger issues
Laziness
Jealousy/Possesivness
Lying
Bad teeth/breath

Being all talk, without substance.

Dishonesty, or pretending to be someone they are not.

I would have expected more 'fat' answers. What traits overcome the bad ones? Money? Brad Pitt looks?

Anonymous wrote:so DCUM wants a docile, non white man who has no drive. Sounds excellent.

And you got them from what exactly? Not cocky...no show off...and the troll post?

A man not being cocky or a show off has nothing to do with no drive or being docile it has to do with being respectful and mature.

Secretive...whether that means lying or just not being totally open.

so DCUM wants a docile, non white man who has no drive. Sounds excellent.

show off

Cocky

I'm curious what's an instant deal breaker or turn off for women.

Is it a guy being fat, stupid, lazy, boring, other...?