I am in shape, and lift as much or more than some men: I'm also in my 50's, have white hair and not much cleavage......so no, not really hot.

No way, you were not over-reacting! Men need to be called on this behavior. If you can't say something to him, totally tell the staff. I am highly annoyed by behavior like this, which is why I refuse to join a gym.

maybe he was checking out your "camel toe" LOL

i remember when i use to belong to Bally's gym, there was this old guy in the locker room who would stare at naked guys coming out of the showers, really creepy, he was bald, fat and literally salivating. His behavoir stopped after awhile probably because someone said something or he made an ill-advised advance in the showers.

I don't think you overreacted at all.

R U hot?

No. There are guys who lurk at the gym to leer. Super annoying.

So the guy behind me whenever I looked up in the mirror was weird. The same guy lounging at the weight rack while I was on the incline bench was weirder. But when he turned a bench around perpendicular to the bench I was doing crunches on so he was watching me and not the mirror, I said something to the staff. Do you think I was overreacting?