Anonymous wrote:OP I cannot even believe your post is real. Basically you are allowing a homeless, unemployed loser to mooch off you. Go to the police station and see if they will help you evict him. Get a locksmith and an ADT alarm system.

+1.

But you forgot to add "violent felon" to the list of this guy's qualities.

OP I cannot even believe your post is real. Basically you are allowing a homeless, unemployed loser to mooch off you. Go to the police station and see if they will help you evict him. Get a locksmith and an ADT alarm system.

Anonymous wrote:Assuming this is not a troll, which is a HUGE stretch, why on earth did you let him move in with you? This man is a user. It is only a matter of time before he starts stealing from you (more than the money he's currently stealing) and/or beating you. Please contact a domestic violence shelter immediately. They can help you with an exit strategy.

I'm pretty sure this is the same troll who posted about dating the felon a few times . She's terribly uncreative and pretty pathetic as far as trolls go.

Assuming this is not a troll, which is a HUGE stretch, why on earth did you let him move in with you? This man is a user. It is only a matter of time before he starts stealing from you (more than the money he's currently stealing) and/or beating you. Please contact a domestic violence shelter immediately. They can help you with an exit strategy.

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Anonymous wrote:Hmm... I think you should have a kid with him, that will snap him out of it

+1 There are no guarantees, but having a kid may settle him down.

Also, if you could somehow increase the amounts of money you are giving him, it would reduce his stress while job hunting.

And make sure he has plenty of beer in the fridge.

Don't forget to bring other women home to have sex with in front of him! He'll like that and it will probably calm his nerves!

Did you punch your sister last year around Thanksgiving?

Kick him to the curb. He's a complete loser. Why even date a guy who rents a room to begin with?
The good guys are married. Where are you meeting guys?
How about work? Any single guys there?

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Anonymous wrote:Hmm... I think you should have a kid with him, that will snap him out of it

+1 There are no guarantees, but having a kid may settle him down.

Also, if you could somehow increase the amounts of money you are giving him, it would reduce his stress while job hunting.

And make sure he has plenty of beer in the fridge.

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Anonymous wrote:Hmm... I think you should have a kid with him, that will snap him out of it

+1 There are no guarantees, but having a kid may settle him down.

Also, if you could somehow increase the amounts of money you are giving him, it would reduce his stress while job hunting.

I agree. I would start with a kid with this guy, but then go on to have a bunch of other kids by different, but similar, fathers, so you can diversify your portfolio.
You should have your wages go in to his bank account, and that way he can decide how much he allows you to have, which may also reduce his stress.

Anonymous wrote:Hmm... I think you should have a kid with him, that will snap him out of it

+1 There are no guarantees, but having a kid may settle him down.

Also, if you could somehow increase the amounts of money you are giving him, it would reduce his stress while job hunting.

Is he also a felon?

Kick him out now. I took my dh in when he was unemployed when we hadn't been dating long. Now he is kicking me to the curb for another woman while I am unemployed.

Kick his ass out and mean it - have somebody there to be with you when you do it, then change the locks. And if you have to, get a police escort to your door every nite until you move. And MOVE. I once told a landlord I had to move over a nasty relationship and believe me, there's some understanding people out there - your landlord might be one of them. And tell them your ex/roomie is an ex con and has a violent rap sheet. Maybe they will be glad you want to leave.

I've been there. Ever see the movie the Shining? That was me. He had a knife. I had locked my self in the bathroom screaming out the window for help. He said he cut himself, he was bleeding, blah blah blah. It was ugly and I was too S-T-U-P-I-D to kick him out. So he just choke me and beat me until the lease was up. All over a freaking lease. How crazy. I should have just moved and explained it to the landlord, tears and all.

Hmm... I think you should have a kid with him, that will snap him out of it!

On the off chance that this is a real post, you should probably look into getting a restraining order, and if this guy is really that psycho, maybe make some temporary changes in your living arrangements so that you are not alone at your home.

I don't understand it. Where are all the good guys at?
Yes, I did have a horrid relationship with my father. But seriously....?? It seems every guy I meet is a jerk slash loser.

The guy I am currently dating just got evicted from a room he was renting for non-payment of rent and now he is living at my apt. His car isn't running and I seriously doubt he will ever have the money to fix it. (Cat Converter issue, $1,000 repair.) Plus, he needs to register it and insure it which he most likely won't have the money to do.

He works two hrs a night cleaning up after events and only makes about $300-$400 every two wks.

Since he has been living with me, he hasn't paid any rent or helped out with the electricity and water. He promised he would, but when his check comes, he always claims he needs to buy such and such and that his next check he will help me out. Never happens.

He eats my food and when he runs out of money, he begs me to go to the market and get more.
I drive him around town on my own dime, I "loan" him money I never see again and when he is down and out, I am the one who saves his ass.

And yet last night we had an argument about him not improving his life.
He laughed in my face and told me I WAS the loser. That I was a terrible person and that my parents did a horrid job of raising me. He stated that I was a liar in denial just like his bitch ass mom. <--- His exact words. He hates his parents, siblings and all of his ex's. He blames them all for screwing up his life. His mom has a protective order on him as we speak. The only time we get along is when he smokes weed and is relaxed.

I want to kick him to the curb, but he has a violent history.
He spent some time in the pokey for domestic violence and he has severe anger issues.

I am just terrified if I kick him out and he is on the streets, he will turn meaner and try to seek revenge.
He once told me when he was mad at me, "You know what?? I have been to prison....I learned life skills there. I can destroy EVERY element of your life if I so chose to. But you are not worth an ounce of my time and effort."

Help.
What should I do?