OP, another mom congratulating you. I do not have an answer for you because I did not go through that situation. however, my DD developed a serious ealth issue at 3 yr old. We did speak to the doctors (who were very good and provided all answers), but our situation was also a wait and see type of situation, where there was a very wide range of possible outcomes (from going back to normal, to having permanent retardation to even death), so the doctors kept telling us about what the situation was at the time and that we needed to wait for the various tests and, unfortunately, for time. I went online and started reading all kinds of stuff, it was awful, I almost had a breakdown. I eventually stopped doing it, just talked to doctors and simply taking it day by day. 4 years later, my DD is normal, and we are now starting taking her out of some medications. my story to tell you to stay strong, take care of yourself, recover from childbirth, and talk to your doctors, and be careful about going around to fnd those answers you really cannot find, because really every situation is different. sometimes preparing for the wqorse when the worse is not there and may never come may be very costly in terms of your sanity (this does not mean avoiding reality, but taking thingsw day by day). a very big hug