Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Found one through Amex. Thanks for the comments, pp. So helpful! Sigh.

That's ok, you can just ask her if she enjoys having strangers raise her kid. I've heard that always stings. But hey, one good turns deserves another.

BRILLIANT. I mean, we know pp doesn't love her children since she outsources their care. But did it really need to be said?

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Found one through Amex. Thanks for the comments, pp. So helpful! Sigh.

That's ok, you can just ask her if she enjoys having strangers raise her kid. I've heard that always stings. But hey, one good turns deserves another.

OP here. Found one through Amex. Thanks for the comments, pp. So helpful! Sigh.

You can buy a repaid Visa card and your DH/sugar daddy can add to it online.

http://usa.visa.com/personal/cards/prepaid/prepaid-card.html

Debit cards don't have the protections of credit cards. If you lose it and someone uses it fraudulently, you are not as protected.

I think you should learn some self-control and use a credit card and/or just use cash.

I suggested to DH that he give me a monthly stipend on a debit card so that we can stop using the credit card. Any suggestions on a good one? We have one through our local bank but I'd like a separate one not linked to our joint checking.