Anonymous wrote:Are the 12 a mix of IUIs and IVFs? If so, how many of each? All BFNs? I wish you all the best and really hope that it works for you this time. Most of us on this board have gut wrenching stories but I cannot imagine doing 12 cycles of ART if a fair number of them were IVF.
There were two miscarriages. We have gone the spectrum. The last 4 cycles were using gestation surrogates. From a science point of view, things should have worked. But there is always that "chance" factor.
I don't want people to lose hope. We have not. Hopefully most people will not have that challenges we have encountered.
Just remember, it may be a marathon, not a sprint, so pace yourself.