Thanks, all, I think it might have been too little flour in the flour/butter ratio. I refrigerated the second batch of raw dough for about 20 minutes while the first batch was cooking and cooling, and that seemed to help.
I can't remember the recipe completely, but it was something like:
1 cup flour leveled
1 cup packed light brown sugar leveled
1/2 cup white sugar
1 teaspoon baking soda
1.5 sticks unsalted butter (and I used salted, so maybe that had something to do with it?)
1 egg (can't remember size, but I had large or extra large)
3 cups oats
1/4 cup maple syrup
1/4 water
1 teaspoon vanilla
I mixed all the dry ingredients first. I creamed the butter and sugar for 3 minutes as stated. It did "not" seem as fluffy as it's supposed to get. Not sure what I did wrong there.