If you are willing to drive up to Germantown, THH Pediatrics is a great practice.
http://www.thhpediatrics.com/
In my experience there, they are very pro-breast feeding, didn't push the one vaccination I turned down, and will work with you on the antibiotic thing. My son had ear infections every 3 weeks or so as an infant, so we had several conversations about the use of antibiotics vs. ear tubes. They prescribe pretty mainstream approaches to things, but I don't think they push. And they definitely work with you and address your concerns.
They also have a D. O. on staff who might be even more open to different approaches. I don't know him well enough, though.