Definately have sex when you want to. You don't want to lose out on romance. Babymaking sex can be fun too, but we all know that it can be work. Make sure she's charting or using a monitor or something so your chances of success are higher. Then open some wine or watch a sexy movie or whatever you need to get things moving!

It's been a few months that me and my lady have been TTC. At first it felt easy but now it looks so artificial. Come to a point where when we really want to have sex on her off days we feel like this would not lead to the baby so why bother . On days she is ovaluting, it's seems too much of a pressure trying to make the romance work.

We already have a 5 yr old and we were hoping we could get pregnent this year but we are both frustrated. Should we concentrate on the romance or the baby? Any suggestions would help.