Anonymous wrote:You will stop the foreclosure but what hapens after that? How are your parents going to pay the remaining portion of the mortgage? What are the chancesof them being in the same situation a few months to a year from now? How will you handle the tax implication and obligation you will now be responsible for? What happens if you use the money to stop the forclosure and then your parents have a major health issue (not wishing it to happen)" How will you handle that?
There is no mortgage, this is a judgement against him that he plans to extinguish.
The chances of them being in the same situation again in the future are high.
We plan to take out an amount that would cover the taxes before we remit the rest to him.
Yes, I look towards the future and see nothing but the prospect of disaster. It would have been better to keep this money for their health needs/long term care etc. But, if we did that and let them lose their home, they would never have spoken to us again. I think they will end up relying on the state for support - with all that involves, but I am not sure that we are in a position to prevent that. If someone has lived for 82 years this way, they probably won't change when they get to 83...