Anonymous wrote:My in-laws home is so cozy and welcoming. It's clean and not cluttered (big change from ours). They have artwork that they've created and collected over the years, beautiful houseplants, and fresh flowers. It just really seems to reflect them. They're usually cooking something that smells great. MIL burns a pine-scented candle around the holidays (just one for the house), which is really nice, and I usually don't like scented candles.
I have trouble relaxing in our own house because I'm faced with a mess that I never seem to tame. We have really comfortable living room furniture around an area rug that's the baby's play area--that's a nice spot to hang out with the family. I think paint can make a big difference in how inviting a room feels--I really liked the pale yellow we did in our bedroom, but struck out by painting our living room white. I don't like giant rooms--some new construction just seems to have such big rooms that you feel lost. That's hard to change, though.
Anonymous wrote:I second lamps. Overhead lights are AWFUL.
I think lighting candles looks nice and warms a place up. Oh and removing clutter. Nothing makes a room more uncomfortable to me than looking around and seeing a bunch of shit scattered over the tables and on the floors.A couple nice warm throw blankets on the couches helps.
Oh, and not pulling the blinds all the way up. Hate this!! Leave the blinds down and open them to let sun in, but don't pull them all the way up to the top of the window, leaving it bare. And if you do, DEFINITELY don't let them hang lopsided.
And lots of things on the walls!
Anonymous wrote:I just completely re-did my family room. I had the same stuff since the late 90s.
I made it a totally chill design...not a lot of knick knacks or tons of busy decorations. Very calm, warm colors. I have a glass jar with ocean rocks my boys collected on the beach in LongIsland this summer on the mantel now, art I love on the walls, etc.
We have lived in the home about 3 years so I finally got a feel of exactly how it worked. It is not a huge home given its city location, but I really worked on designs to eliminate clutter and make if feel homey while minimal. There are hooks and cubbys and baskets.
I now completely relax whenever I step in that room. Re-organizing and getting all clutter out of the house made it home for me.
Anonymous wrote:I choose artwork that has special meaning to me, not just pretty.
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