I am hair-ignorant. I have always gone to a salon every 4-7 months to have my hair professionally dyed. I can't afford it anymore. Please tell me what I need to know to do this at home, beyond what's printed on the box. Even if you think it's obvious, it's not obvious to me - i can't even blow my hair out straight. In your tips, please include how to decide which shade to dye your hair (my hair is dark brown, I want to dye it dark brown and cover the greys), how to make it shiny like it is after I leave a salon, and how to avoid getting hair dye all over my body when washing it out in the shower. Thank you so much.