Anonymous wrote:
Maybe I am missing something. I believe all of us want our DC's to go to the best college for THEM. They should have a realistic goals. Small or large, urban or rural, religious or liberal. Parents use the college their DC's attends to brag to their friends. I have worked at several local Univ. mental health counseling centers. Let me put it like this, I left Cornell ( Ivy League) because of the high suicide and attempted suicide rate. These kids were top in their class with high SAT's. The pressure parents put on their teenagers is sad.
Please don't get caught up in the hype. You and your DC have time.
Not OP, but how on earth did you translate OP's post into someone looking to pressure her child into a school for parental bragging rights?