She's looking for attention that you're not giving her, imho. Ask her to wear those outfits for you, do some role playing at home. Lavish attention on her when she wears stuff like that. I assume this is a new thing, and most likely, if she's seeking attention, she's tried to ask you for it in other ways but you're not listening. Embrace it, and eventually you can make her dress like a hooker only for you. This way, you both get what you want.

And as a PP said, yeah, stop talking shit about your wife on a public forum. Forget unprofessional, that's just dishonorable.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm not even a prude and as an early 30s male I still like it when we dress up on weekends but this is quite unacceptable for someone her age and position. Quite frankly if she was my employee I would have had to ask her to go home and change. I hope she isn't turning tricks at Mcpherson Sq during her lunch hour.

This post is so inappropriate. Stop posting insulting speculations about your wife in a public forum. Talk to her. Kindly and respectfully as if she's the person you married because you love her.

Ok seriously? What is she wearing and what is her profession?

That's a tough one. It's kind of her business but I guess you could try to make wardrobe suggestions in a gentle way.

Of course you are a prude.

Poor you! Guy posting on DCUM about his wife. Just talk to her. Or, do you actually talk at all? Other problems?

OP here. I'm not even a prude and as an early 30s male I still like it when we dress up on weekends but this is quite unacceptable for someone her age and position. Quite frankly if she was my employee I would have had to ask her to go home and change. I hope she isn't turning tricks at Mcpherson Sq during her lunch hour.

Sorry, sweetie, you know I am out of town 'on business.' Have lunch plans with my Dallas lover. Go see your friend in Glover Park. See you tomorrow. Don't forget to pick up dog food and the items on the grocery list.

It is sugar. Ready for your loooong lunch today?

I dress this way because it attracts attention that I don't get otherwise. Love my fishnets and short skirts. Hate my husband. Is that you, honey?

go rent a pimp outfit.

I think I work with her. She's covering up for her total incompetence.

Is she having a midlife crisis? Trying to dress like a teen to hold onto her youth? Has her clothing style changed? Does dress matter in her her work environment?

I think you need to look past the clothes and figure out what this is about...

What kind of stuff does she wear, I am wondering?

How do you handle this without sounding like a jerk.