Anonymous wrote:I had abdominal surgery 11 years ago to remove several large fibroids and became pregnant 3 months after. (I was told not to try until 3 months after surgery.) I delivered my son almost a year after the surgery. I was about to turn 34 when I got pregnant.
At this point, I would agree that the fibroids (or now lack of) are NOT impacting your fertility. As for the bleeding, that sounds about like what I had after the surgery--heavy for day or so. That doesn't sound like something that would cause anemia.
What jumped out in your post was the fact that you are trying to lose weight when you are a size 4/6. I really don't see any need to do that. If anything, you could be creating undue stress.
You've been trying to get pregnant for 3 months. Keep trying. Most doctors don't see anyone your age until they've been trying for at least 6 months, if not a year.
This. I am overweight and wear a 12. My doctor would like me to be a little lighter but doesn't see it as a big impediment to fertility, but doesn't want me "dieting" just eating well and moderate (not heavy) regular exercise. I have been trying for 9 months and from everything I've read and heard from my doctor and an RE consult is to just keep at it. Read TCOYF, try temping and charting. Go easy on yourself (easier said than done) and just enjoy the practicing part rather than the midnight feedings part.