They look like the work of Chipotle Mom-troll threads designed to get reactions.

The relationship with 2 life partners should be the tip off.

The rude nanny thread did not belong in that forum so I locked it. The other thread was appropriate. Beyond that I don't want to comment on the threads due to the reasons cited by the previous poster.

I don't like this kind of request. It's an anonymous forum, and unless you think someone is sockpuppeting or otherwise abusing anonymity it's none of your business. I haven't checked out those threads but I can't imagine what would justify satisfying your personal curiousity.

Is the Unreasonable Gifts thread and the Rude Nanny thread in General Parenting from the same OP?