Ergo for later. The first months only the Moby worked for us. I'm a size J and former nanny so I hear you.
On the schedule thing now that I'm a mom of 2 myself I can understand. You want to keep #2's routine as much as youcan close to normal and I bet she's asking you to do the errands because she wants to spend quality time with them when she's around.
Please try to understand
