Is this plan workable - 3 must do park activities in the a.m. and 3 in the afternoon/evening. Fill in with random stuff/eating.
It is most likely workable--it's going to depend on how busy it is, and also how early you go to the parks/how late you are willing to stay. The earlier you arrive, the less crowded it will be. By 10 am, that's when it starts getting crowded.
Need recommendations for top 6 activities at each of the parks for 8 and 10 year old kids (one girl/one boy).
Magic Kingdom: Space Mountain, Splash Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, Tomorrowland Speedway, Pirates of the Caribbean, Haunted Mansion...but Peter Pan and Dumbo will have very long lines as well...
Epcot: Soarin (longest line, you should try to hit this one first or get a fast pass) Test Track, Mission Space, when I was there last week I saw a lot of kids in that age range doing the new Agent P game
http://www.disunplugged.com/2012/06/22/agent-p-game-debuts-in-epcot-at-walt-disney-world/, go to Club Cool and let your kids try all the differnt sodas,
Hollywood Studios: Tower of Terror, Rockin RollerCoaster, Star Tours, Toy Story Mania (longest line--you should try and hit this one first or get a fast pass), my kids favorite place to eat in Hollywood Studios is Sci Fi--not for the food, but for the atmosphere.
Animal Kingdom: Kilmanjaro Safari (Longest line--go on this first. Animals are also more active early in the morning, so do this as early as possible) Expedition Everest, Dinosaur, Festival of the Lion King, Kali River Rapids (you may get SOAKED on this ride), if your kids have a favorite animal, make sure to see it here...
If we stay at the Swan, can we use another nearby resort pool as well? The ones at the Dolphin, yes. But the pools at the Boardwalk, Yacht Club/Beach Club? No. Stormalong Bay (the pool for Yacht Club/Beach Club has a gate all around and an employee checking room keys to make sure those not staying there don't go in. The last time I was at Boardwalk (back in May) there was no such security...but you're not supposed to...