OP here. We had just recently (with the dp) halved the booster dose b/c of some other issues. I have to talk with the dp again about this.
Thanks for the recs about food. We are very familiar with HANGRY and I always carry food for DS to have. He literally eats as soon as he gets off the bus, again at home, at dinner and again after dinner and before bed. I have noticed that they days the rebound is worse happen to be the days he "forgets" to eat his lunch at school. I almost want to show up at lunch to make sure he eats something.