Anonymous wrote:Absolutely mention it to any parent you speak to that has young children. Better for a small minority of weirdo neighbors who will think it's inappropriate to nevertheless be aware than for even 1 child to get molested. Hell, I'd rather every neighbor there hate my guts than 1 child get molested. And if 1 got molested, trust me, you'd never know about it. The parents might never know either.
I would certainly want for you to tell me!! OMG.
And here is the absolute bottom line - if he has child porn, he molests children. And wants to molest children. And jerks off fantasizing about children. ugh! gross.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You need to step back. You are the new neighbor. You want to come move into the neighborhood and immediately start gossiping about a neighbor who has possibly lived there for years?
By the way, I am very good friends with someone whose husband was on that registry. In his younger years he was a photographer. One time he got hired to take pics of people at a party. So he did. Many of the partiers were drunk. A few were dancing on tables. Two flashed him while drunk and dancing on tables. They were underage. He had no idea. They have two small kids. The whole family is lovely. We have let them babysit our kids. My friend and her husband worked very hard, for many years to get his name cleared and as of two years ago it finally is.
I just tell you this so you realize how far things can go wrong. Don't gossip.
I agree that it wouldn't be wise to go around posting flyers or knocking on doors to alert your neighbors, but the story above is definitely the exception, and not the norm. The vast, vast majority of guys on that registry deserve to be on that registry.
Anyway, I think I would mention it in passing (on the playground, or something) to one or two close neighbors, Sort of like a "did you know that so-and-so is on the registry? Wow, a little unnerving" or something like that. Then gauge reactions.
Anonymous wrote:You need to step back. You are the new neighbor. You want to come move into the neighborhood and immediately start gossiping about a neighbor who has possibly lived there for years?
By the way, I am very good friends with someone whose husband was on that registry. In his younger years he was a photographer. One time he got hired to take pics of people at a party. So he did. Many of the partiers were drunk. A few were dancing on tables. Two flashed him while drunk and dancing on tables. They were underage. He had no idea. They have two small kids. The whole family is lovely. We have let them babysit our kids. My friend and her husband worked very hard, for many years to get his name cleared and as of two years ago it finally is.
I just tell you this so you realize how far things can go wrong. Don't gossip.