11:37 I wonder why...he lied he was going to talk to his mother and get some air...it was just str8 up sex the first time...2nd time was talking about himself, his family, his new job and other related non-sexual stuff, then we had sex and i left when he was out talking to his "mother"...I want to have sex with him...it might sound wrong but I really don't care i f he is talking to other women...he is 25 and I am 30...sooo he has a right to live his life...

Also, OP, I'm kind of perplexed as to why you want to see him again when he is lying to you about talking to other women. If you want to keep it casual and NSA, that's cool, but shouldn't he be upfront with you?

Anonymous wrote:OP here! Yeah thanks to everyone who responded....really helped clarify things...

Ok OP - hey, take care of yourself out there.

OP here! Yeah thanks to everyone who responded....really helped clarify things...

He may not be "soooo upset." Maybe he just decided that he isn't that into you. Move on.

OP here! Groan! Really...its so hard in the dating world...i was a virgin when i met my husband and he is only the 2nd guy I have been with...I am really pretty sane...this is soooo embarrassing..somehow my girlfs interpreted it all to me he was really into me and had his feelings hot because i left...lmao...

Groan! Really...its so hard in the dating world...i was a virgin when i met my husband and he is only the 2nd guy I have been with...I am really pretty sane...this is soooo embarrassing..somehow my girlfs interpreted it all to me he was really into me and had his feelings hot because i left...lmao...

OP, let me get this straight. You met a random guy for NSA sex online. You tried to see him again and had to jump him for sex. After you finally got sex, he told you he needed "some air," so you snooped and (shocker!) found out he was having random sex with other women. You contact him again and he doesn't respond. Seriously? You can't understand this? He was looking just for sex, isn't that into you, and actually thinks you're kind of crazy now. Maybe lay off the Internet hook ups until you get your act together a bit? Did you to to therapy after the divorce?

Anonymous wrote:OP here! I actually hadn't had sex in almost 2 years... going through a difficult divorce so bingo on insecurity and just plain horny...i am glad i did it... truthfully, i just don't get why he is upset...i just want sex..no strings attached...is that so hard for a man to provide...well i guess not, especially if he is into older Asian women

He just wants sex too. Just not with you anymore. You looked through his email and left without a word. Sounds phycho/stalkerish to me. Is that so hard to understand?

OP here! I actually hadn't had sex in almost 2 years... going through a difficult divorce so bingo on insecurity and just plain horny...i am glad i did it... truthfully, i just don't get why he is upset...i just want sex..no strings attached...is that so hard for a man to provide...well i guess not, especially if he is into older Asian women

OP. You sound like an insecure young woman who needs validation from a random man to boost her self esteem. It sounds like you are only good for a one night stand. I'd ignore you too. Especially if I know that I could just call you again next month and have sex again (when I'm bored). Gals like you are a dime a dozen. Easy lay and don't have to pay too much attention to you.

He's just not that into you. move on.

1) He knows you snooped.
2) You just left.
3) He got what he wanted and was done with you.
4) He's got a thing for older Asian women and you didn't fit the bill

I had random safe sex with a stranger who i went online...it was so good (he cuddled afterwards and kept saying i cant believe you are single) we made plans to meet up again...when i got to his place all he wanted to do was talk and cuddle...well honestly i got sick of it after an hour and jumped him...we had sex..then he said he wanted to get some air and call his mom back...well so after he left i snooped through his email and saw he was actually calling an older Asian woman who looked just like his mom and who he also met online (he is Asian-Italian)...well so I felt sick to my stomach so i packed my stuff up and left...without telling him...

The next day i texted to find out if he was up for some fun and he replied no....i asked him if he was tired or just not interested...and he replied not interested... well i haven't heard from him since then..i texted him to wish him well on his new job which he started on Monday...its been 5 days now...