I just want her to get the help she needs. It doesn't help that her older brother (by one year) is doing exceptionally well at school. I keep stressing that everyone has their own strengths and she is much better than him at some things and he is better at others. Tonight was a bad night as she kept repeating "you just don't understand me! I don't know what I am supposed to do!" of course, I did understand and was trying to let her know I understood, but she was past the brink of frustration and I could not get through to her. I need help helping her!